Let’s talk about what the grief is really about, let us get to the nitty-gritty about the grief of losing a loved one especially a mother and how it affects your entire life. Has anyone experience any of the secondary losses in a significant way, and if so please comment? We’re going to work through this horrific traumatic event together folks. Please remember to follow the Red Handkerchief Policy 
you may, yell, scream, cuss, fuss, or use profanity to express your anger over losing your family member. However. please do not belittle or disparage anyone on this website, be respectful to each other at all times, remember we are all here to support each other not tear each other down during this difficult time.
The first loss is the DEATH
The secondary loss is the following:
Loss of income
Loss of identity
Loss of dreams for the future
Loss of faith
Loss of confidence
Loss of financial security
Loss of support system